Why Women Love Kinky, Naughty, Dirty, Nasty Sex And 5 Ways To Do It

The fact is that women love kinky sex.

Sure, they might not admit it in public, but this is only because they don’t want to be labelled as being ‘sluts’.

Remember this: What women say they want is often the opposite of what they actually want when it comes to sex.

Indeed, if women just told their men want they want in the bedroom, things would be a whole lot easier for us guys. But the reality is that women don’t often tell us what they want because they just want us to know.

You see, when a guy does all the right things in the bedroom (without his woman having to tell him what to do) — he seems like the PERFECT GUY. She thinks she’s hit the SEXUAL LOTTERY JACKPOT because she’s got this guy who can basically ‘read her mind’ in bed.

Well, guess what?

It’s actually not that difficult to give your woman the type of INCREDIBLE SEX that’ll keep her wanting to have sex with you for weeks, months and years to come.

All you have to do is learn what women want, then realize that most women want the same things in bed. Sure, every woman’s different — so you have to tweak things to suit different women. But basically, there are a few key things that all women want.

One of those things is KINKY SEX.

Now when I say kinky sex, I don’t mean black leather masks and whips (although you could do that if that’s your thing).

By kinky sex, I mean sex that isn’t BORING.

Listen up.

Missionary position with the lights on is okay, but not all the time.

You have to mix it up. You have to make it kinky, naughty, dirty and NASTY. That’s the type of sex that your woman really wants.

Here’s how to do it…

5 Ways To Give Your Woman Kinky, Naughty, Dirty, Nasty Sex

1. Mirrors And Video Cameras

There’s something a little bit ‘wrong’ about watching yourselves have sex.

So get the mirrors out and/or video camera and your woman will love it.

2. Anal Sex

Anal sex is considered a TABOO.

And anything taboo is secretly very exciting for a woman, including the idea of anal sex.

Just remember to start out very gently and take your time.

3. The Fear Of Getting Caught

You can bring this ‘fear’ into your sex-life by doing it with your woman somewhere where you might get seen. She’ll enjoy this one more than you can imagine.

4. Dirty Talk

Ah, my favorite sex technique of all.

Talking dirty to your woman will drive her crazy. So do it.

5. Introduce More People

Group sex is definitely kinky, naughty, dirty and nasty. And the truth is that many women would like to try group sex.

What I’ve shared with you here are 5 ways to spice up your sex-life and give your woman BETTER SEX. Remember though, whatever you do — to give her truly rewarding sex (the kind that make her totally loyal to you), you must give her vaginal orgasms.

There is no other way.

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Female Sex-Drive – Why Your Woman Never Wants To Make Love To You (Important Reading For Every Man)

In this article I’m going to talk to you about the FEMALE SEX-DRIVE.

The reality is that the female sex-drive (or a woman’s LIBIDO) is a great mystery to most men and many so-called ‘sex experts’ too.

Many sex experts like to make it seem like a big deal because then they can get paid for giving advice to couples week after week, month after month about how to improve their non-existent or painfully unsatisfying sex-lives.

Luckily for you — I’ve figured this stuff out.

I know what makes women want A LOT of sex.

And I know what makes women want not a lot of sex.

Would you like me to explain these SECRETS about the female sex-drive to you?

Okay, I’ll share…

Listen up.

If you only take one thing away from this article, make it this:

– The only way to keep a woman’s sex-drive HIGH in a long-term relationship is to give her GREAT SEX.

It’s as simple as that.

Women who are experiencing great sex with their men, want A LOT of sex.

On the other hand, women who are getting average or poor sex from their men, tend to not want very much sex at all.

Makes sense, right?

So the biggest reason why your woman’s sex-drive isn’t as high as you’d like it to be is because you aren’t giving her as much SEXUAL SATISFACTION when you do have sex with her, as she’d like.

However, there are other factors (not just bad sex) which can negatively affect a woman’s libido.

The biggest of these factors is when a man does something to cause his woman to lose RESPECT for him. Respect is essential for great sex to happen. You must respect your woman and she must respect you.

Even if you do have GREAT SEX with your woman, you can still cause her sex-drive to decline by doing something that ruins the mutual respect that is so necessary in a successful sexual relationship.

So to keep your woman’s libido high, there’s a two step process:

– Develop and maintain respect

– Give her GREAT SEX

To give her great sex, here’s what you must do:

– Develop an emotional connection with her

– Give her plenty of foreplay

– Talk dirty (really dirty) to her

– Try lots of new things in the bedroom and do so on a regular basis

– Give her VAGINAL ORGASMS

Vaginal orgasms are the most important thing on that list. In fact, VAGINAL ORGASMS = GREAT SEX.

If you don’t give your woman vaginal orgasms, she won’t consider the sex to be great and her sex-drive won’t be high. Period.

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Sex Healing Power: Top 10 Effects of Sex on Human Health

It is quite unfortunate that many couples have a kind of sex life that is casual. They have little or no emotional attraction at a deep level, which can help to improve on their mental and physical health. This is because they are yet to realize sex healing power.

Sex transcends your thought of it as an ordinary activity that you need to satisfy your sexual urge and have sensual excitements. It is important to understand that it is an intimate marriage activity as well as a sex healing therapy for your body.

As a matter of fact, sex is healing. The sensual excitements that come with it have a great sex healing power that can ensure a considerable measure of good health. Therefore, the following are simple reasons why you must have sex frequently in order to release the sex healing energy in your whole being, that is, spirit, soul and body.

1. Romance and sex help to consume excess calories that have been eaten in the day. This is because certain amounts of energy are used up when having sex. The energy is released as sweat in the body.

2. Sex releases endorphins into the blood stream, thus enhancing good mood for your mind. It makes you feel relaxed. This makes sex a natural preventive measure against mild depression. Women who are sexually satisfied are the most happy.

3. Another sex healing power is the reduction of the risk of prostate cancer. The reproductive organ is kept relaxed and strong through hormonal production.

4. Having been scientifically proved, a certain amount of estrogen hormone is secreted in women’s body during sex. This has been known to keep the hair shining and the skin smooth. It is a natural beauty treatment for women who want to use sex healing therapy instead of cosmetics.

5. Sex is the safest tranquilizer you can think of.

6. Sex can relieve you of stuffiness of the nose when you have cold or fever. This is because sex is a natural antihistamine for your body.

7. Whenever you have mild headache, try sex healing power because it can help to gain relief. It simply takes care of the mental tension that restricts blood vessels in your brain.

8. A good love-making episode that is done with a relaxed mind lowers the possibility of suffering from certain skin diseases such as skin rashes and blemishes. This is because the pores of the skin are cleansed by sweat, thereby making it smooth and healthy.

9. If you are sexually active, your body will yield a greater quantity of a biochemical substance referred to as pheromone. It is a natural sex perfume on your body which adds to your sexual attraction before your husband.

10. Sex is a physical exercise for your body. So, try to have sexual intercourse with your partner as often as possible.

Grace Lawrence is a passionate writer-cum-author on Relationships, Love, Dating, Marriage and Sex Advice. She is also an experienced counselor. Grace is happily married. Download her free e-book at [http://wikilovelife.com] and learn more from her on Sex Healing Therapy [http://wikilovelife.com].

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What Types Of Sex Dreams Do You Have?

Sex is a natural, healthy and pleasurable part of life, so it’s not surprising that we dream about it. What is surprising, especially in this sexually liberal society, is that only about eight percent of our dreams are sexual.

In an often cited Montreal sex dreams research project conducted in the early part of the last decade, it was found that forty-five percent of men and forty-one percent of women participating in the study reported having sex dreams. Keep in mind that these numbers only relate to the research subjects. In other studies it was estimated that one hundred percent of men reported having sex dreams and eighty-four percent of women admitted having them.

I’d venture to say that we all have had, or will have a sexual dream at one time or another.

Of the eight percent of our dreams that are sexual, there are common themes that pop up regularly in both men’s and women’s nocturnal adventures.

Mae West, the American 20th century actress, once claimed that her first erotic dream was of a bear with a reddish-brown member about fourteen inches long. “I was,” she later quipped, “modest in my demands.”

Here are the most common types of sex dreams. Read them through and see which ones you’ve had.

Adultery Dreams

I wouldn’t rule out that this type of dream could be precognitive, but it’s usually not. Dreams of you or your partner being unfaithful is more likely to be about a situation or feeling where you’re not being true to yourself or your ideals/beliefs, etc.

Breasts

I’m not Freud, so I won’t suggest that dreaming of breasts, whether you’re a man or a woman, is referring to an unhealthy attachment to your mother. Breasts can mean a number of things, and in order to understand their significance in the dream, you would have to look at the context and additional content of the dream.

Genitalia

Dreaming of male or female genitals (doesn’t matter which gender) isn’t reflecting an obsession or unhealthy attitude, but probably is a metaphor or an analogy related to reproducing something, privacy or modesty.

Highly Erotic Dreams

These kinds of dreams are common and don’t necessarily mean that you’re over-sexed or that your tastes lean more toward the kinky stuff.

Homosexuality In Dreams

Contrary to many people’s and even dream worker’s beliefs (and often fears), dreaming of sex with a same-sex partner doesn’t mean you’re homosexual (unless you are gay, then you’d just analyze this type of dream the way you would any other sexual dream). The implication is probably that you want to develop a relationship with the individual in the dream, or that you want to resolve some conflict (make-up). Of course, these are just two of several possibilities. As with any image/symbol, you have to analyze it in context.

Impotence Dreams

Both men and women have these dreams, and though it’s possible that it’s a prodromal (health warning) dream, it’s more likely a dream that relates to feelings of impotence or your inability to perform in some other area of your life.

Incestuous Dreams

Now this type of dream is probably the one that disturbs dreamers the most. And with the exception of some kind of repressed trauma (which is very, very rare), has absolutely nothing to do with hidden or unnatural sexual feelings for a family member.

Kissing Dreams

Not all kissing dreams are sexual. If you’re kissing your child, your sister, a good friend, and there’s no passion or sexual energy, then you know it’s not a sex dreams.

Masturbation

I pretty much can guarantee that this type of dream isn’t going to be discussed among friends. Both men and women are still very quiet on the subject of self-gratification, which is essentially what the dream message is. Do something for or to please yourself.

Pregnancy Dreams

Though these aren’t necessarily sexual dreams, we can’t get pregnant (naturally at least) without sex, so it fits in with sex dreams. And yes, men have pregnancy dreams too. The question to ask yourself when you have this type of dream is: What am I creating (birthing), or bringing into the world?

Sex In Public

This type of dream is closely related to anxiety dreams where you’re naked in public or unprepared for a test of some kind. On the other hand, it may be an expression of your comfort with yourself, or being in the public eye.

Sex With A Celebrity

Ahhh, we can wish! Many dream workers will tell you that this type of dream is simple wish fulfillment. First of all, there’s nothing simple about dreams, and second, the celebrity may be a stand in for someone else, for a cause or talent, or showing you some role or part in your life that needs your attention.

Sex With A Stranger

Both married and single men dream of having sex with strangers more often than women do (though women dream of sex with a stranger as well). It doesn’t mean that you’re bored with your partner necessarily. Perhaps you’re looking to try something new in the bedroom, or in your life. Maybe you need to acknowledge the masculine aspects of yourself.

Sex With An Ex

This dream doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re still harbouring feeling for your ex, or that you want to reunite. Thought it could. Perhaps something in your current situation is reminding you of that relationship, or that individual. Is your hubby acting like the jerk you dumped before prom?

Sexual Assault Dreams

These are some of the most terrifying types of dreams for both men and women, though women tend to experience them much more often than men do.

Sleazy Dreams

Dreams of sexual encounters in less than proper places, or in less than proper ways, in no way implies that you’re looking to take a walk on the wild side. But it may be hinting at your attitude toward sex, or your current sexual relationship.

Wet Dreams

These types of dreams are enjoyable for both men and women, unless they’re part of a more disturbing type of sex dream. Teenagers have the most et dreams, but these types of dreams continue well into old age.

Sex dreams can be very pleasurable, but on the flip-side, they can be very unpleasant and downright terrifying. Because the subject is so sensitive, dreamers seem to be especially emotional, confused and/or concerned about them. As with any dream, the context and content of the sexual imagery is essential in uncovering the message your sex dream is trying to get to you. Take the time to look at all angles, rather than jump to the conclusion that it’s just about sex, or that the situation being depicted is actually what it is. Don’t let the sensitive nature of the subject matter colour your interpretation and understanding of the dream.

If you would like to learn more about your sex dreams and what they mean visit Terry Gillis, Dream Analyst’s website.

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Sex Kills Love

We want to believe that by having sex, we’re “making love” and so many people talk about “making love” to describe their sexual encounters or acts.

Love is the element that makes the world go round and it literally does just that; not sex. Love-energy is the component that causes everything live to exist and without it we cannot and won’t exist. Since we now know, from research and previous articles that “sex is not love,” sex in reality kills the love that is supposed to be all over – the love that we should experience toward special people in our lives, toward living entities in our lives and toward our “neighbors.”

Sex especially kills the potential growth of love in a man, because a man can only grow love and get in touch with his feelings when sex is kept away from him – kept out of the relationship for the correct period of time while the couple get to know each other, are busy interacting to become compatible with one another, to understand each other, to grow love to full capacity and to become tolerant of one another. All these things take time and when we go against nature and the creation things just don’t work anymore. We were not created to have sex first, then fall in love and lastly get married. It just doesn’t work that way around as that is the wrong way around.

If we want to have a platonic relationship-bond with another in a supposedly special relationship such as a life-partnership or marriage, we can have sex with any person we so choose, just the way men thought it could be done for centuries, even millenniums. On the other hand of we want the bond between life-partners to be meaningful and deep, the only way to achieve that, would be to grow love and not sexual experience, pleasure or infatuation. In other words, the focus should be on love and not on sex!

When we, males and females, have sex, the focus is on what the sex provide us with and not on how we actually feel. A female could believe she has met her true love, when in reality she only made an emotional connection due to the sex, trapping her in something she shouldn’t even be a part of. A male on the other hand, never gets to that level of love, being unable to connect with his true feelings when sex is a part of the relationship, as there isn’t a necessity to reach that level of love, since what he was supposed to get as a reward for getting in contact with his true feelings and experiencing true deep love, he got in the beginning.

There are always the exceptions; where people fall in love deeply in a very short while and whose love last a lifetime, but these are usually superiorly secure and whole people, able to develop their love at super speed. The rest of us fairly normal people need time to properly and entirely fall in love, not to mention, to get to know a potential life-partner completely-inside and out.

There are people who get married by way of an arranged marriage and there are people who choose to marry before knowing the other party well or even before having any feelings for the other. This could only work if both parties are wholly secure and know within, they are able to love any person who treats them with dignity and respect, who behaves well and who contributes rather contaminate. This way the souls are joined together first through the vows; and the unifications in the spirit-world is strong enough to withstand any challenge and obstacle. The moral of the story here again is love. Only when two people are secure, which means “already filled with love” to contribute the love to the relationship, could an arranged-marriage succeed and in most cases it does. The reason for this is that the parents are so involved in their child’s life, which provides the security and love that the child could get married to any individual, the parents have chosen and make a success of it. Parents choose out of logic and not as a result of misconstrued emotional actions and feelings, something that happens to people all over the globe when sex is involved.

People have such a yearning to be secured somewhere and since most people confuse sex with love, they have sex with the wrong people and then force marriage or a life-partnership when it wasn’t supposed to happen.

When sex is brought into a relationship, it stops the development of love, as sex is the reward to an established and secure relationship and not the start of creating a relationship. Sex can never be used as foundation for a secure relationship, yet many try to and even after realizing the mistake, they still try to force it to be this way. Sex is the declaration and visible act, proving to belong to another, another soul, not in legal terms or in theory, but by action. The problem here is that many millions of people don’t support love and the development of love, but rather sex that would ultimately result in the destruction of experiencing true love.

We are in a trap of socially acceptable sex, approved drugs, artificial consumables (food and beverages), synthetic clothing, misconstrued beliefs and religions, and false relationships, but sex is the act that removes the most important experience of it all-the experience of love. Once love ceases to exist, there will be no need for physical existence and life anymore.

Beware: Sex truly kills love!

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